What To DO When He Says He Needs Space

For many of us it can be extremely difficult to be with the emotional turmoil, that may come up when a man asks for space (or in any other way communicates that he’s not available to talk or be with us).

This is why there are TWO things you need in this moment:


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The Importance of Attachment Styles - And Why This Is Not All!

And if you listen to the experts, it’s easy to get the idea that if you only can master your attachment issues and stay away from “the wrong attachment styles”, your relationship journey will be an easy ride.

Unfortunately, I’m here to tell you that this is not all…there are SO many aspects of a relationship that goes far beyond the reason of attachment.

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Navigating Long Distance Relationship

Once I was in a long distance relationship.

I had just come out of a divorce. 

I remember the ups and downs - the hope, the expectations and the new freedom after being divorced… living alone… and at the same time the rollercoasters of emotions… of sadness and loneliness and fear.

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How to Overcome Fear of Intimacy

You´re definitely on to something here - it IS difficult to be intimate with another, if we are not intimate with ourselves….at least if we view intimacy as something somewhat broader than just something that has to do with sex or body.

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How Feminine Energy Will Help You Attract Love

Do you know what it feels like to embody your Feminine Energy?

When I started out on my (self)love journey, I had no idea what Feminine Energy was, and less did I know how to embody it.

I just knew that what I had been doing so far, hadn´t given me the love and relationship I so desperately longed for.

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How To Strengthen Your Boundaries

What tends to happen when we give up on ourselves in order to please a man, is that we ignore our inner boundaries AND also our framework boundaries, because inside we feel so small, starved and desperate for a little bit of something, that only has maybe a tiny bit of potential…

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The Antidote To Relationship Anxiety

In one of the biggest happiness studies conducted, the researchers found a clear relationship between happiness and having a loving, long term relationship with a good partner.

It is hardwired in us all, both men and women, to want to live together in love with someone, and to share our life with someone, to mate and have kids. Even if love and relationship traditionally is more prone to be valued by woman, a man still craves a good woman by his side to feel complete.

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How To Communicate Your Emotions To Bring Him Close

Have you ever heard that communicating your feelings to a man, will push him away? Or perhaps you have experienced this for real, when you were sad and angry, and you let him know how you felt, he suddenly withdraw. And this made you feel even worse, so you poke him and try with all means to get a reaction from him, but this only makes him go further and further away?

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Are You Accidentally Becoming One Of the GUYS?

And if a man you REALLY want suddenly approaches you…you feel all anxious. You try hard to get his approval, and if he takes you to be, it makes you feel like a winner for a moment. You have amazing sex, you wear your rose coloured glasses for a while and you think that maybe you finally you got it....only to later find out that the sex was all he ever wanted….

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