THE BIGGEST CHALLENGE WITH SETTING BOUNDARIES ARE THE RESPONSES WE FEAR GETTING FROM OTHER PEOPLE.
And yes - this IS a big challenge. Because a lot of people will not like it when you start setting boundaries and saying NO. A man can get angry. He will complain, especially if you been going along with things in the past.
Read MoreYou feel as if you have given up on yourself a little bit. You THINK in your head, that next time I will say NO to this or that…..
But when the situation appears, you find yourself saying yes to something that you really wanted to say NO to.
And then you feel down on yourself because you did not stand up for yourself. You start to blame yourself and feel guilty.
And in your head, a thousand thoughts are running around, about HIM and why he is doing this or that, why he is not paying attention, why he is...
Have you experienced that it is SO hard to set boundaries with men?
Do you often find yourself being somehow walked over or overseen?
You feel unheard. You have a lot of unmet needs.
OR you have trust issues. You feel that you cannot trust others. It seems they often let you down. You feel suspicious and uncertain if others really want the best for you.
Read MoreWhen I hear women complain about their men today however, I listen with curiosity.
What are they really saying?
Between the lines, it is rarely about the dishwasher, or the napkins, or who is picking up the childrens toys.
Between the lines, is the fear and the feeling of not being loved.
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